How come my people keep performing They're not performing the way I want I Wonder why we're a friend of mine who Has been through divorce multiple times First marriage he said you know you know My wife just and I don't get along with Filing for divorce I mean she changed After the marriage second wife got Married After a number of years somehow Magically my second wife Is awfully similar to my first wife Divorce throughout wives like we got Married after just a couple years Same and I said what do you think is the Problem I don't know I don't mean woman I don't understand them have you ever Thought about just possibility maybe Could be you he doesn't understand it's Not the wife that's the issue is his Inability to have a happy fulfilled Wholesome relationship that is the issue